You're born self-centered yet as an adult, being self-centered is often considered a negative characteristic trait. Yet, even as an adult, being self-centered might be a good quality for your relationships, depending on how and why you are exhibiting it.
Shame lives in your head and is perpetuated with silence. Moving beyond shame, especially the shame of speaking about sexuality, benefits this author and is a choice that all adults can make to have more confidence within themselves..
Bondage and submission aren't new themes however America’s puritanical underbelly of sexual conservatism dangerously conflicts with the permissive, modern-day hookup culture giving young people the wrong, or no, message about sexuality and abuse.
Words are our most powerful communication tool, but many women's words get stuck in their bodies. Learning to speak your voice will develop not only your self-relationship but will help you become your own best friend.